Intimate O(pi)nions

Archive for June 30th, 2009

People often ask the question: “how do you know you’ve found love?” I have a very simple answer to it: Love is the answer, and if you are asking questions, you haven’t found it yet. If you are asking yourself questions like “Should we move in together” or “what are the pros and cons of us staying together” you know the answer isn’t love. Pros and cons are for bargaining, it means that you are giving up something, and if you feel you are giving up something, you haven’t found love, at least if you wonder if this person is worth giving something up for.

People say that when you have found love “you just know it”. That is true. You know it, because all questions stop popping into your head. There’s no more “does he/she really love me back?” any more than “do I really love him/her?” going around in your head. All that is left is just a calm knowledge that all is well and how it should be.

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